Understanding Infantilization: Causes and Symptoms

In the realm of mental health, a myriad of complex conditions and behaviours exist, each with its unique set of causes, symptoms, and treatment options. One such behaviour that has been gaining attention in recent years is infantilization. As a psychiatrist at Rekindle Wellness Psychiatric Centre in Kolkata, I, Dr Navin Kumar Gupta, aim to shed light on this often misunderstood behaviour, its causes, and symptoms.

What is Infantilization?

Infantilization is a psychological term that refers to the act of treating an individual as if they are much younger than their actual age. This behaviour is often directed towards adolescents or adults and can lead to a range of psychological issues, including dependency, low self-esteem, and difficulty in social situations.

Causes of Infantilization

Understanding the causes of infantilization is crucial in addressing and treating this behaviour. The causes can be multifaceted and complex, often rooted in the dynamics of the family system.

Overprotective Parenting

One of the primary causes of infantilization is overprotective parenting. Parents who are excessively protective may inadvertently infantilize their children by not allowing them to experience age-appropriate challenges and responsibilities. This behaviour can stem from a parent’s anxiety about their child’s safety or their desire to keep their child dependent on them.

Parental Anxiety and Fear

Parental anxiety and fear can also lead to infantilization. Parents may fear that their child will experience harm or failure, leading them to overprotect and infantilize their child. This behaviour can limit the child’s ability to develop essential life skills and independence.

Control and Manipulation

In some cases, infantilization can be a form of control or manipulation. A parent or caregiver may infantilize a child to maintain control over them or to fulfill their own emotional needs. This behaviour can lead to a power imbalance in the relationship and can have long-term effects on the child’s mental health.

Symptoms of Infantilization

Recognizing the symptoms of infantilization is the first step towards addressing this behaviour. The symptoms can vary depending on the individual and the extent of the infantilization, but some common signs include:

Dependency

One of the most common symptoms of infantilization is dependency. Individuals who have been infantilized may rely heavily on others for basic tasks and decision-making. They may struggle to make decisions independently and may often seek approval or validation from others.

Low Self-Esteem

Infantilization can lead to low self-esteem. Individuals who are constantly treated as if they are incapable or incompetent may begin to internalize these messages, leading to feelings of inadequacy and low self-worth.

Social Difficulties

Individuals who have been infantilized may also experience social difficulties. They may struggle to form healthy, age-appropriate relationships and may feel uncomfortable or anxious in social situations.

Difficulty with Life Skills

Infantilization can also lead to difficulty with life skills. Individuals who have been infantilized may struggle with tasks such as cooking, cleaning, or managing finances, as they have not been given the opportunity to develop these skills.

Addressing Infantilization

Addressing infantilization involves recognizing the behaviour, understanding its causes, and seeking professional help. At Rekindle Wellness Psychiatric Centre, we offer a range of treatment options for individuals and families affected by infantilization. Our team of experienced psychiatrists and mental health professionals are committed to providing compassionate, evidence-based care to help individuals overcome the effects of infantilization and lead fulfilling, independent lives.

In conclusion, infantilization is a complex behaviour that can have significant effects on an individual’s mental health and well-being. By understanding its causes and symptoms, we can take steps to address this behaviour and support those affected. If you or a loved one is struggling with the effects of infantilization, I encourage you to reach out to us at Rekindle Wellness Psychiatric Centre. We are here to help.

For more information, visit our website at https://rekindlewellness.com/ or contact us at +91-9833304241 or info@rekindlewellness.com. Our centre is located at Joypur Road, Chakur, Bagnan Howrah 711303, Kolkata, West Bengal.